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Now that's not FAIR
Wordspark , NCR: Oct 5 2008
Made Popular Oct 6 2008
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Now that's not FAIR
It’s a commonly heard that the actual beauty lies inside. But does this thing hold good in practice too? How many marriageable people would accept a dark complexioned but otherwise eligible person as their partner for life? Hardly anyone. Ironically, India is a country of wheat complexioned people where fair girls stand fairer chance of getting privileges than their dusky counterparts. Parents get a double whammy when they get a baby girl, that too of dusky complexion.
Now that's not FAIR

Why are we obsessed with the white skin? Is it in the Indian genes or a colonial hang-over that white skin defines beauty? The market is flooded with the skin whitening creams. Fair & Lovely from HLL is one such brand that has exploited this psyche and has now a massive 53 per cent market share. Star Plus even runs a tele-serial on this very theme: the duskier sister is not getting married and the whole family is in tension!
Now that's not FAIR
(from L to R : Noyonika Chatterjee, Carol Gracious and Sheetal Malhar)

Does that mean that not-so-fair people stand no chance of getting success; at least the ad seems to convey this only. A dusky girl comes home like a lost solider, gets a complete makeover by using a fairness cream and wow! She is on the top. Ironically, most of the top Indian models like Sheetal Malhaar, Carol Gracious, Noyonika Chaterjee, Dipanita Sharma, Nina Manuel are dusky beauties. Grooming experts say it’s not just the complexion but the whole personality that counts. I think it is high time we shun all our preconceived notions and stop discriminating with those born with natural darker shades of skin. After all there is lot more to success than the shade of one’s skin.
Now that's not FAIR

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Ramesh Balam
Pune, India
I have heard girls falling for tall, dark and handsome guy. Whats wrong if the boys seek fair beauties? All handsome guys are not tall and dark. Similarly, all babes are not fair. Even fairer dames make life miserable after marriage.
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Hi Rameshji,

Thanks for reading and commenting. There is nothing wrong in liking a fair beauty out of one’s choice. But I too feel that virtues do not depend upon the skin colour.

Regards
Wordspark
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Vijay
Kota, India
Black is beautiful.Rameshji very cleverly explained it in his own way.
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Marco Villa benaliwatch.blogspot..
Connecticut, United States
India is not the only country where people are ashamed of the darker skin, in the Gulf Arab nations there is the same sad obsession with having whiter skin. Many women there buy lotion that is advertised ( I have seen the commercials) as making one’s skin more beauty. I believe the product is Fair and Lovely. This truly is an inferiority complex toward the ’White Man’.
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Hi Marco,

Thanks for commenting. The inferiorty complex you are talking about is very much real in so many minds, and within so many families. And it has been
very shrewdly exploited by the promoters of fairness products.

Regards
Wordspark
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The question is not white or black skin. I liked the way you have put forward the existing problem, but i believe that its just a matter of perception of the masses. If the majority of people believe that colored hair looks good then, coloring lotions would sell, likewise if there is a market for fairness creams then there is no harm in exploiting it.
The harm lies in our very perceptions, i don’t like roses but my girlfriend loves them, just a matter of perception.
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Marco Villa benaliwatch.blogspot..
Connecticut, United States
But this is not a question dealing with not differing harmless perceptions. It is not that one likes roses or doesn’t. This is a question of skin color and people are making the value judgement that one form of color is inherently better than another. That is a heart racist. Just because there is a market for something does not make it acceptable.
(Global Perspectives)
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Hi Rachit,

Thanks for commenting. Definitely there are personal choices. The point I want to make is that ads create kind of an inferiorty complex in the dark people and THEN exploit the market for fairness procuct so generated. This I feel is very unethical.

Regards
Wordspark
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Shahwar K
kolkata, India
all this skin bling is trash!

darker people are absolutely gorgeous, but thats again kind of racist,don’t you think so?

like if dusk rules then one day we will be siding with the fair!

it’s all a part of the game!
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Ms Shahwar K,

Thanks for reading and commenting. It is not a question of siding with the less favoured, but of the merit in absolute terms. I am myself telling that dusky people are absolutely as O.K. as the fair-complexioned ones but the ads show the former as kind of less privilaged and are exploiting the market artificially created by this sentiment, and quite successfully! It is not fair to the dusky people, and that is what I want to highlight. After all, game too has to have its ethics.

Regards
Wordspark
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